You’ve found yourself
the girl of your dreams, and guess what she’s a Filipina. You decided to visit
her for the first time. On the
second thought, you don’t know what to do when you get
there. How to act, what to bring as gifts for her, where to stay, what
things
you should do when you’re there, simply all the things a
foreigner
should expect with her Filipina girlfriend.
You’re confused
because you’ve been hearing about Filipinas as “gold-diggers”; they’re only out for what they can get.
This is a common
misconception, about the Pinays in general. You might even be surprised
to find
out that many of these young ladies are very shy to ask a man for
money. In
fact they would if opportunity arose, but still they want to work hard
for it.
You will also be surprised that Filipinas who you will be in
relationship with
is more than likely to want to protect you from wasting all your money,
they
will avoid you from the things that are expensive, poor value &
quality,
and also of course to other Filipinas who’s just
after your money. A good Pinay will always protect her investment which
is of
course you.
First of all, you wanted to impress your girl. In their
eyes they’re convinced that you’re rich, why? Because Philippines
are a third world country, and anyone
who is from a foreign country such as UK or US is considered as rich.
You have
to be a Filipino kind of broke before they consider you broke. So
before you
ride the plane to Philippines, there are things you need to prepare
aside from
the proper documents such as passports etc. First, a gift for her,
maybe a
branded perfume. Then you must expect that she will introduce you to
her
family, especially if you guys have talked about marriage. You then
need to
prepare a gift for her nanay (Mom) and tatay
(Dad). Small items
from your country to be given to her siblings. You might want to bring
extra
gifts too incase grandparents are there too hehe. Bring imported
chocolates,
they would be glad when they receive pasalubongs
(gifts from other
places).
Meeting your lady for the first time can be a bit awkward
for her. She will be shy most of the times but expect that she would do
her
best to make your trip worthwhile. Filipinas are charming, loving,
attentive
and very helpful. They are aware that since it’s your first time in the
Philippines, she will want to look after you
and take care of your needs, she is also aware that you took the time
to travel
and see her in an exclusive basis. She is of course flattered by your
visit
that she wants to make your stay as comfortable and as enjoyable as it
could
be. And of course the long wait has arrived; honestly you’re going to be expecting sex!
However, expect that you might not get it
immediately or within the first couple of days. If you get lucky, I
advice you
to think carefully about family planning. Since Filipinas are not that
conscious
about birth controls, you should do the first act by using a condom.
You wouldn’t want to embarrass her or yourself
with her family,
getting her pregnant before you are married.
Visiting a Filipina in an exclusive basis is very
important; expect to be out with her most of the times. Pinays feel
proud to
have you walking with her, it’s quite chic in
the Philippines to have a foreign boyfriend, so don’t be surprised if you get a few
stares from other people. Expect that
if you treat a Filipina as your “princess” there is no boundary for what she
will do for you.
And that is why you should not stare at other Filipinas while in her
company.
This is actually considered to be rude, and may cause your lady to show
strange
kind of behavior known as “tampo”. Pinays can be quite stubborn when
you displease her,
they don’t want a guy to come all the way in
the Philippines
and just start looking at another local. After all, they can get
someone who
does that right at home. Yes, some Filipinos “Pinoys” are known for having mistresses,
one of the reasons why young Pinays are attracted to the idea of a
foreign
husband that they are absolutely convinced that foreign men won’t cheat on their wives, or at least
the majority don’t do it.
The important thing to remember is that Filipinas can be the most accommodating woman in the world, treating you like a man should be treated comes natural to them. In return, they expect you to trust them. Second is fidelity, they don’t want you to commit infidelities and third is Honesty. Pinays expect you to be honest with them in a practical way. They expect you to provide for them and take care of them. Simply, a Pinay expects to be treated as the only woman in your life.
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